Ask The GURU
Dear Guru,
I have a question for you, I'm happily married, have two
wonderful children, a wonderful career, wonderful friends and family,
I'm very healthy and very active in sports, my question is this, if I
have everything a man could ever want, why do I feel something is
missing? a void? Like there should be more? My friends say I should be
grateful, and I'm but there is that feeling like there is something
missing.... Help I'm lost
Dear lost,
Since each of us creates our own reality your "lostness" lies within your innermost thoughts, The thought behind the thought so to speak.
You still have much to do with your life, but at some point the "happy ever after" story became part of your belief system. Often, both men and women who have let their culture dictate their "roadmap" to happiness, feel like they are "marking time" or "missing something" while they complete their obligations to their first idea of who they thought they were to become. Monitor your thoughts, words, and actions for an understanding of where you are, but it isn't necessary to know all the details. Most of all relax. You are in the middle of a wonderful chapter, but you are writing a book. You've created this reality and you will create tomorrows reality as well. Regardless of how that reality appears, or how scary it might seem at the time, You will always create towards your own highest and best good.
Namaste
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Dear Guru,
The reason I'm writing to you today is because I am very confused. My friend suggested I write to you to possibly shed some light.
After almost two years of dealing with my break-up, I met someone that I was very attracted to. The feeling was mutual. After a date or two he confided in me that he had bone cancer. At this point he is feeling fine and is showing no symptoms, but it is what it is. Realizing that if I get too involved, I will be setting myself up for hurt and disappointment. I am keeping all my options open. I recently met someone else that I thought was very nice. On our second meeting, he informed me he had a cancerous brain tumor and was given 6 months to live if he did not have surgery. He is scheduled for surgery on the 14th of this month. I talked to him about it and told him to contact me once he was feeling better.
Here is my confusion. Why am I attracting these people. I have come a long way in two years and I feel that I have very positive energy and I'm happy, yet two people who have come into my life have life threatening illnesses. I sometimes think that it is my turn to be a caregiver. Six years ago I went through a very grueling medical treatment and if it wasn't for my caregiver at the time, I probably wouldn't have made it through. What are your thoughts.
I know it's probably difficult to analyze something from just a few words, but whats up??? Any explanation you can give would be greatly appreciated. Signed Confused
Thanks.
Dear Confused;
With your permission I will gladly tune in on your "vibes" (for lack of a quicker/ easier explanation) and see what ,if anything, I can pick up on. My initial "sense" was that "you have a desire to keep your relationships "safe" and the universe always delivers on our deepest wishes." These people are not coming into your life in response to your positive energy, They are coming in response to your quest for a "safe" relationship. You can't get deserted by someone who is getting ready to complete their life's path. What you've proposed about being a caregiver is a solid idea also, especially if your have had thoughts about "paying back" or owing the universe a debt.
As to the friends ... There is no limit of the amount of love you have to share with them but you may want share with the thought in the back of your mind that they might not split up after all. Lastly don't hide anywhere, nothing is coming into your life that is not there for your highest and best good. For instance, Why do you think all of this is bad news? Your friends divorce might be the best thing that could happen to them. Your two dates may have been inspirational for them. Always assume that the universe is perfect. When something seems not right, try changing your perception until you can identify with the real reason something is happening. You may not like it but you won't be confused.
Namaste
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