How to Attract Men

Isn't it time that you experienced true love and the most amazing relationship of your life with the RIGHT man? If your answer is 'YES' then read on...

Dear Love Goddess;

I have been seeing the guy off and on for 3 years...we get along really well except he works really long hours and as he has his son on the weekend we generally only catch up during the week...

When he comes over he is really tired and grumpy..I find that I cant talk to him if I have any relationship issues as he tells me he is to tired.

I have tried talking to him at different times but always just get told he is just waking up or lots of other excuses down that same path...I know he loves me but I am a very open person and need to be able to express myself when i need too..

I end up frustrated and confused by the mix singles he sends me. I finally get to the point where I just brake up with him and then about a week later after he has disappeared he wants to talk and is caring and attentive again.

We are stuck in this horrible cycle and i just dont know how to stop it.

Hope you can help me

thanks

M

Dear M

Relationships are one of our challenges and blessings in life to grow and learn from. Women in general are more communicative then men, and we are also more intuitive then men, so use your intuition to gauge his mood, if he seem like he is not in the mood to talk because he is tired then let him rest then have a chat...

Tell him you will resume your conversation with him when he has had some rest. Now if when he has rested, if he still doesn’t want to talk about issues, then you need to re~evaluate where you stand with him...because if he loves you as you say he does then he will honor what is important to  you.

But if this is a pattern that keeps repeating itself, he doesn’t respect you to value what you have to say, that tells me you deserve better...Tell him this has to change or you will have to find someone that honors your need to share..

If this is going on for 3 years, you need to ask yourself “can I live like this for the rest of my life with a man who won’t talk to me?” And the answer to this is NO!...So do some soul searching and ask yourself what it is about him that you can’t live without?

Suggestion; write him a letter and say all you need to say and have him read it...then see if that sinks in. But you see the pattern here is when you break up and then get back together without resolving anything, he knows you will take him back so he sees no need to change...

Put your foot down and not go back unless he agrees to your terms...You are the captain of your ship, stir where you want to go, if he follows then your home free, if not then it’s time to kick him to the door! 

Women make the mistake and think they can change a man, no way unless he truly wants to change...This man seems to be set in his ways, but if it means losing you or to get his act together, then hopefully he’ll get the message and choose to take time to listen and talk to you about what matters to you.

The Love Goddess.

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